Hmm.. I'm lookin at my life and I wonder that how many friends do I have who are far away but I still make calls to these friends of mine. In the initial days when I used to call them up, I used to get deeply involved in the most minute detals of their lives. Then I came across a girl (who so far away) took away my heart. Hmmm...!!! must say a perfect thief (Junior Big B is the influence here)... never mind...!!!
In the initial period of my kinship with her the distance worked on my side. How? You would be wondering...!!! Picture this. You like a girl and you are getting the vibes that the girl is also intrested. The girl is excited to talk to you and the vice-versa inspite of the huge STD bills and the little night sleep. You grow closer to the girl. The distance worked for you because you are so far away from the girl that she is hardly worried that she is talkin to a stranger (may be) whom she hasnt met (or met at the most once). She has nothing to lose from this relation...as the emotional attachment is minimum, the guy will pay for the bills (most of the times and the girl enjoys....[:(] never mind) and may be the immediate trouble/situation of meeting a stranger/new person is averted for atleast some more time as you are in a different city. And voila...!!! the relation has flourished.
After a few months, You finally make up your mind to make the next move. You want to meet the girl. The girl too is excited to be bold and ready to meet a stranger aka now a GOOD friend. You guys meet up. Sparks fly. You come back home with the promise to return and meet her soon. Few more months pass by. The reality sinks in. The bills sore, you both now start to catch up on your lives, meet new people. You start showing disintrest in each other slowly. The "love and excitement" fades off. And who is to blame here....(I guess) the long distance...!!
You think to yourself, " Long distance relationships never work...!!!"
Damn you've changed sides. the distance which earlier worked for you has now started to work against you. You think to yourself, may be if u were in her town, then may be you would have had a good chance to make it through.
Is it the distance that is to be blamed who first WORKED FOR YOU to keep you excited in the relation to meet a person. After a few days as some time has passes away without you meeting her, it starts to WORK AGAINST YOU that you (or her) were not able to continue the magic of the relation. There are couples who stay in the same city but who hardly meet, but they still fall apart, then where does the parameter of distance come in...? I guess its all in the mind of the society who propogate this law.
i.e. Love is inversely proportional to the distance from your partner.
Had i been in the city as that girl, may be i would have made it through....Can i say that....????
I leave you to think about that....as I rest my case...!!!!
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