Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Every year...that day...

Every year, on the last day of the year we resolute something to achieve which we havent got or achieved in the passing year. as the weeks pass by, situations change, our priorities change and so do our goals. Long forgoten are those vows made to our consicience. Misery follows guilt and it does not take long to realise that the new year is not really making us HAPPY. This is just abt the new years eve then come the days....Valentines day, Birthday, Friendship day and also the most enjoyable period of the year....the festival times which continue till the end of the year. Every year we have a different promise being made just like the last years that we shall achieve XYZ by the next year on the same day.



How many times do we do the above? what do we learn? With changing times we MAY or MAY NOT be able to do all the things on the TO-DO list. Why cant we do it? I wonder. Loneliness, laziness, no vigor, no/low risk in life are the few of the many excuses that come to my mind as an answer to that question.



Whats the solution? By the time we realise that we are trouble, we have already lost the time and opportunity. So in reality, it is about being available in the present moment and finishing off all those things which can be procrastinated. By doing this half the troubles are reduced, success is met more often and definitely happiness stays around.

Achieving all those things before that day returns next year makes comes with enormous amount of experience. The struggle to achieve the goal leaves us more richer with experience of living life, if not moolah.

Live the real life by striving to achieve those goals to gain the experience, coz after all it is what makes our life more richer. Lets not renew the vows, rather lets make new ones as the old ones have already been crossed out by that day every year.

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