Thumb rule....!

What do u think is true for friendship that is also true for love? We all know for a fact that friendship sows the seed of love. I clearly have one rule in my mind which i have followed since childhood. "if the girl likes u in one go for something then she will like u no matter what u do ( even if u have pissed her off for something). And if she does not like you in the first go then, no matter how hard anyone tries she will not like u.... "

It is important to see whether the girl has an inclination towards the conversation u make with her. If the input is flowing from just one side then the relation MAY not grow for long. I had thoroughly understood this when I apporached my puberty. So i used to always let go off women who were not showing any interest in me or my conversations, despite i having a soft corner for them.
Conversely, there were loads of instances where i never used to let go off a FRIEND even after i had understood that the lady is showing the least of interest in me or my conversations. i kept pursuing the relation. I was just wanting friendship. Nothing more. Why cant women just be friends and not think beyond. I started getting unhappy despite knowing very well that i had done nothing to spoil the relation. Then why was i subjected to such a treatment? Today, after so many years have passed by, Eureka moment arrived. The rule of thumb that i used to follow for LOVE should have also been followed for FRIENDSHIP too...may be thn i wud have felt less hurt. It was useless pursuing women who were just trying to waste time for the heck of it and making myself unhappy thinking things would improve. Instead its now easier to let go off such people.

It may be hard in the beginning (thats what i realise) but once in the gear, i am sure it will be a smooth ride. Its better to invest myself in a place where i feel happy rather than pursue people who are dis-inteterested in me (as such wthout knowing the real intentions of me).